Obligations

Why is it that my whole life I have felt obligated to things that I personally don't want to deal with! As I'm getting older (which is really hitting me lately) I'm starting to realize that life is to short to try to please everyone. I have always been a people pleaser, you know, don't want to "rock the boat" Well as I sit and think about everything, I've decided that I'm going to do what I want, when I want to. Someone (whom I trust) once told me "In life you have no true obligations!" I think I'll go with that! Wish me luck!!